What is his motive?
The father has registered the son in all day kindergarten behind the mother’s back. This is just one of the long list of things that he has done to the mother behind her back. It is stated in the divorce decree that no decisions for the child will be made without both parents agreeing on them and or being present at the time they are made. The father has registered the child in pre-school the last two years without the mother invited to attend. The first year she didn’t even know about it until the child was attending for over a month. She then worked with the father and made arrangements on how the child would get to and from pre-school since he was the paying for it and it was benefiting the child. When the mother was taking the child to counseling she always informed the father before the appointment and also invited him to attend with her, but he refused. He thought since his and his son’s relationship was fine that the counseling was just to help the mother and son’s relationship.
The father wanted to switch the mother weekends, where he would have two weekends in a row and the mother would have two weekends in a row including Mother’s Day weekend. This is all because Mother’s Day falls on his Sunday. And he didn’t want to lose out on any of his time. Father’s Day also falls on his weekend. She didn’t agree to this.
Mother got a letter in the mail from the judge about attending mediation, and the focus on the child class. They already went through all of this just a year and a half ago. This is just another way to break the mother financially.
Please, if you can help her out, please send what you can to the addresses listed below. Mediation is $400-$500 an hour and the judge ordered a minimum of 3 meetings. She is responsible for 50% of every visit, and the focus on the child class is $35.
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Sunday, April 18, 2010
April 18, 2010
The father showed up to pick up his son for his visitation. It was so nice outside that my daughter and her son and about 8 neighbor kids of my daughter, ages 3 to 12 were in the front yard having a water fight. While the two of them went in the house to get dry clothes on, the other kids and the ex husband waited outside. The ex husband took out his cell phone and took random pictures of the other kids that were playing in the front yard on her house. Why? And is this legal? He took pictures of minors without their or their parent's permission. After he left the kids told us about this and it made them very uncomfortable.
Monday, April 12, 2010
She Needs Our Help
April 15, 2010
As anyone who has been through this situation knows the costs of attorneys. I was speaking with a woman that went through a huge custody battle over her 2 children with her exhusband and it ended up costing her over $31,000.
We do not have that kind of money to fight someone that seems to have endless amounts or access to money.
Please help!
April 10, 2010
I am setting up this blog in hopes that people will respond with encouraging words, links to assist, or with helping hands. I am asking for help; emotionally, physically, and financially. Please read the rest of her story.
My daughter, who is such an incredible person and mother, is being rail-road by her ex-husband. I am asking and pleading for help for her. We cannot fight this battle on our own any longer.
My daughter has recently had a birthday where she turned 29 and instead of being happy and celebrating the joys of her life; she is being harassed, and bullied to the point to where she feels like she is loosing a battle for custody of her 5 year old son. She has been investigated, watched by private investigators and is now becoming bankrupted due to his actions against her.
She was divorced from a man a year and a half ago. This man had the affair on her, and is now married to this woman. This woman is much older than my daughter and her ex-husband, but has money. The divorce was finalized in mediation and just days after this he began threatening her with modification. He may feel that he 'lost' the divorce. The custody was set 50/50 with him paying a minor child support payment of $158 a month. The threats went empty until this year.
My daughter is a single mom, going to a big university, purchasing her own home and working on being a better provider for herself and for her son. He is using these as reasons as to why HE thinks she cannot provide or be a stable enough parent to care for her son. He is also stating that since she is living on minor assistance from Health and Welfare that he sould be granted full custody since he is remarried and has more income.
She is in this postion due to his actions; he caused her to be a single mother. She is all of these things because of him. And he wont stop for anything until he ruins it all for her. She refuses to be like a person whom is 35 on a 3rd marriage, or like a sibling whom is 39 and on her 7 marriage. These type of people move onto their next victim leaving their past ones in ruins.
He may have manipulated a medical doctor to file a case with child protective services to get her investigated. This medical doctor examined my grandson for physical and sexual abuse based on his testimony. This man may have put a 5 year old boy through an exam for sexual abuse for no reason but maybe to get that doctor to do his dirty work. When my daughter called this medical doctor to find out why the medical doctor said that she had a responsibility to file the complaint based on the information that was given to her. It the letter from the doctor she was detailed in stating things like: the 'father is concerned', or the 'father believes'. This doctor is a neighbor of the ex-husband and probably goes to the same LDS church as him and his new wife. When CPS did their investigation on my daughter and her son they couldn't find anything and stated that they will be closing the case against her soon. The medical doctor stated the reasons behind her actions were a result of what she was being fed, but doesn't see any medical concerns with the child.
The new wife does taxes and has her CPA license. I would bet my life on that they were the ones that filed papers with the IRS and submitted them pretending to be my daughter. Causing her to be investigated by the IRS. She is now having to battle with the IRS about her first time home owner credit.
I do not know what else this man has done. This man will not stop. This man will keep going until we all band together and say enough is enough. He is trying to break my daughter; emotionally, physically, financially, and make her have to drop out of college.
We had lunch today and she told me that he can make her sell everything, but he cannot take her soul. She refuses to break. Please help her in her fight. If you can send her just $5, and then pass this on to someone else that can send her $5. This is going to help her with attorney fees, and help her to stay in her own home. A house that she on her own turned into a home for her and her 5 year old son. Prayers will also be accepted. :)
Thank You, and God Bless.
The address to give donations to:
Attn: Loiness Protecting Her Cub
9398 Martingale Dr
Boise, Idaho 83709
OR
To her attorney in her name
Larry Dunn c/o Brenda Hodges
619 West Grove
Boise, Idaho 83702
As anyone who has been through this situation knows the costs of attorneys. I was speaking with a woman that went through a huge custody battle over her 2 children with her exhusband and it ended up costing her over $31,000.
We do not have that kind of money to fight someone that seems to have endless amounts or access to money.
Please help!
April 10, 2010
I am setting up this blog in hopes that people will respond with encouraging words, links to assist, or with helping hands. I am asking for help; emotionally, physically, and financially. Please read the rest of her story.
My daughter, who is such an incredible person and mother, is being rail-road by her ex-husband. I am asking and pleading for help for her. We cannot fight this battle on our own any longer.
My daughter has recently had a birthday where she turned 29 and instead of being happy and celebrating the joys of her life; she is being harassed, and bullied to the point to where she feels like she is loosing a battle for custody of her 5 year old son. She has been investigated, watched by private investigators and is now becoming bankrupted due to his actions against her.
She was divorced from a man a year and a half ago. This man had the affair on her, and is now married to this woman. This woman is much older than my daughter and her ex-husband, but has money. The divorce was finalized in mediation and just days after this he began threatening her with modification. He may feel that he 'lost' the divorce. The custody was set 50/50 with him paying a minor child support payment of $158 a month. The threats went empty until this year.
My daughter is a single mom, going to a big university, purchasing her own home and working on being a better provider for herself and for her son. He is using these as reasons as to why HE thinks she cannot provide or be a stable enough parent to care for her son. He is also stating that since she is living on minor assistance from Health and Welfare that he sould be granted full custody since he is remarried and has more income.
She is in this postion due to his actions; he caused her to be a single mother. She is all of these things because of him. And he wont stop for anything until he ruins it all for her. She refuses to be like a person whom is 35 on a 3rd marriage, or like a sibling whom is 39 and on her 7 marriage. These type of people move onto their next victim leaving their past ones in ruins.
He may have manipulated a medical doctor to file a case with child protective services to get her investigated. This medical doctor examined my grandson for physical and sexual abuse based on his testimony. This man may have put a 5 year old boy through an exam for sexual abuse for no reason but maybe to get that doctor to do his dirty work. When my daughter called this medical doctor to find out why the medical doctor said that she had a responsibility to file the complaint based on the information that was given to her. It the letter from the doctor she was detailed in stating things like: the 'father is concerned', or the 'father believes'. This doctor is a neighbor of the ex-husband and probably goes to the same LDS church as him and his new wife. When CPS did their investigation on my daughter and her son they couldn't find anything and stated that they will be closing the case against her soon. The medical doctor stated the reasons behind her actions were a result of what she was being fed, but doesn't see any medical concerns with the child.
The new wife does taxes and has her CPA license. I would bet my life on that they were the ones that filed papers with the IRS and submitted them pretending to be my daughter. Causing her to be investigated by the IRS. She is now having to battle with the IRS about her first time home owner credit.
I do not know what else this man has done. This man will not stop. This man will keep going until we all band together and say enough is enough. He is trying to break my daughter; emotionally, physically, financially, and make her have to drop out of college.
We had lunch today and she told me that he can make her sell everything, but he cannot take her soul. She refuses to break. Please help her in her fight. If you can send her just $5, and then pass this on to someone else that can send her $5. This is going to help her with attorney fees, and help her to stay in her own home. A house that she on her own turned into a home for her and her 5 year old son. Prayers will also be accepted. :)
Thank You, and God Bless.
The address to give donations to:
Attn: Loiness Protecting Her Cub
9398 Martingale Dr
Boise, Idaho 83709
OR
To her attorney in her name
Larry Dunn c/o Brenda Hodges
619 West Grove
Boise, Idaho 83702
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